Attain Greater Self-Awareness Through Journaling

The basis for personal growth is gaining a greater understanding of yourself. Journaling to become more self aware is an effective way to accomplish this. Creating a journaling habit will not only help you uncover your thoughts but also what makes you tick. A journal isn’t just important for personal development purposes, but also to beat feelings of loneliness, achieve better health, and even become more productive.

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Journaling is a great way to learn about yourself. 

Seeing things on paper, or even hearing them in a voice note is a little different than just thinking about them. Reviewing your day and your thoughts can be a powerful tool for self-awareness and personal growth.

You can learn something from each day, but only if you have the intention of doing so. Reflection and journaling provide the insights to make positive changes to yourself and your life.

Use These Journaling Techniques To Learn More About Yourself And Enhance Your Rate And Depth Of Personal Development

Make journaling a habit

Write in your journal daily to get the maximum effect. Journaling less frequently will allow you to be lazy in living your life. 

When you journal each day, you’ll feel compelled to have something to write about. 

Set aside 15-30 minutes each evening and make journaling a habit.

If taking the time to write seems like too much of a chore, use your smartphone to record a voice journal entry daily.

Journaling is an invaluable tool for personal growth and development. It allows you to form a positive habit that benefits your mental and emotional wellbeing as well as serves as a form of self-introspection – hence, the term self-awareness.

Review your day

Begin each journal entry by reviewing your day. What happened? 

Record anything you might want to remember in the future, whether it’s a day or 50 years from now. Hit the highlights and be willing to be honest with yourself.

Your journal is a safe place for you to share your thoughts free of judgment. It is between you and you unless you make the decision to share. Don’t cheat yourself by lacking honesty and authenticity in your journaling.

Look for ways to improve 

When you layout your day in front of you, you’ll notice ways you can improve. It might be dealing with difficult people more effectively or deciding to look for a new job.

Take note of the things that frustrated you.  Survey your thoughts and experiences and then the feelings that you have about them.

Are there opportunities to improve to make yourself more in line with who you want to be rather than who you are right now?

List your challenges and shortcomings 

Write about the challenges you’re facing in your life. Put them down on paper (or in an audio note) and see them from a different perspective.

What are your personal shortcomings? Are you impatient? Do you want to work on your social skills? Do you lack goals? What can you work on to enhance your qualities or skills?

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Use writing prompts 

There are books of journaling prompts. These are questions you can ask yourself and then write your responses to them. 

Here are several writing prompts to get you started with journaling to become more self aware:

  • My three greatest strengths are…
  • My three greatest weaknesses are… (also list some ways to overcome them.)
  • My version of success is…
  • I would be happier if…
  • If I could travel anywhere, it would be…
  • My biggest mistake was…
  • If I could start over, I would…
  • The most important things I can do to improve my life are…
  • How would you like to be remembered?
  • What is something you want to learn? Why?
  • Describe yourself in detail. Include the positive and the negative.

Here are some books with writing prompts that you may love:

These are affiliate links and I receive a small commission if you choose to make a purchase.

Review your life 

This could take a few hours or more. 

Start at the beginning and record your thoughts on your life. Write about your home life and schooling as a young child. 

  • What were your teens like? 
  • What were the mistakes you made along the way? 
  • How have you ended up where you are?
  • How have your thoughts, perceptions, and understanding of life changed over the years? 
  • What do you want to change going forward?

If you could redo certain parts of your life, what would you do instead?

Journaling is intimidating for a lot of people. We don’t want to look at the dark places in ourselves and our lives. 

However, shining a little light on these areas can do more for your life than you realize.

The basis for personal growth is gaining a greater understanding of yourself. Journaling is an effective way to accomplish this. Create a journaling habit and watch your personal growth take off.

Journaling provides a platform for self-reflection and helps you look inward to better understand yourself. You can grow as a person by journaling, even if you only keep a short record of your day or write one single reflection in the morning and one in the evening.

Interested in working with someone to help you become more self aware and live a more fulfilling life?

Book a discovery call today to see how we can work together.

As a personal and professional development coach, I help women live the life they want by understanding their personalities, their strengths and their weaknesses, but then also how to use those strengths and weaknesses to their fullest potential and highest advantage. I am a Myers Briggs Personality test enthusiast, and I use the Myers Briggs Personality Test in helping my coaching clients with the services that I provide. You can find out more here.

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